Kitchen.ParentUprising (r1.1 vs. r1.23)
Diffs

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.23 - 19 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 244 to 244

-- KarenA - 19 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

It's wonderful!

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.22 - 19 Nov 2006 - KarenA)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 237 to 237

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

Be sure and read Ken's D-ed Reckoning post titled "On the responsibilities of school districts." It's a quote from Engelmann, and it seems particularly relevant.

-- KarenA - 19 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.21 - 19 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 185 to 185

I've wanted this for a very long time, but it's radically at odds with the culture of the school, which is to "reduce opportunities for learning," not expand them.

Changed:
<
<
The central focus of the district is on keeping kids out of things - making cuts to the Phase 4 track, restricting the number of kids "invited" to take Regents science, restricting the number of kids "admitted" to Honors classes....Top Secret, opaque selection processes, zero transparency, forcing children to jump through hoop after hoop and then rejecting them anyway - it's a nasty, Darwinian system.
>
>
The central focus of the district is on keeping kids out of things - making cuts to the Phase 4 track, restricting the number of kids "invited" to take Regents science, restricting the number of kids "admitted" to Honors classes....Top Secret, opaque selection processes, zero transparency, forcing children to jump through hoop after hoop and then rejecting them anyway - Darwin on the Hudson.

So.....my question is whether the concept of adding a new, innovative, academic offering that allows parents to make a choice is so far off the beaten track that it simply won't make sense.


 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.20 - 19 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 224 to 224

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

Many times it just takes the first fearless person to break the ice

I'm not (really) fearless!

Unfortunately, I forget this fact in the heat of the moment.

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.19 - 19 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 207 to 207

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

If you allow this you will have lost before the first word is spoken. There's a reason that the layout of the room and control of order of speaking is a big topic in lots of negotiations; if you concede it without a fight, you have conceded too much.

Yes, absolutely.

The woman who's leading this effort is an attorney; she's aggressive & tough.

She's an interesting case, because she is steadfastly refusing to hire a tutor OR to reteach math at home herself.

Anyway, she's going to be in charge, and I'm going to be along for the ride.

I'm sure she knows all this, and Ed and I will lobby for a different format from the usual sit-in-chairs-raising-hands-and-asking-questions Irvington Input Fest.

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.18 - 19 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 194 to 194

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

I fear we may be at the point at which we have to talk directly about power.

They have it; they abuse it.

Parents need a vote & a veto.

And choice.

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.17 - 19 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 179 to 179

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

That said, I do think the possibility of demanding a "Singapore" track, or a Saxon track, or both, is quite interesting.

I've wanted this for a very long time, but it's radically at odds with the culture of the school, which is to "reduce opportunities for learning," not expand them.

The central focus of the district is on keeping kids out of things - making cuts to the Phase 4 track, restricting the number of kids "invited" to take Regents science, restricting the number of kids "admitted" to Honors classes....Top Secret, opaque selection processes, zero transparency, forcing children to jump through hoop after hoop and then rejecting them anyway - it's a nasty, Darwinian system.

So.....my question is whether the concept of adding a new, innovative, academic offering that allows parents to make a choice is so far off the beaten track that it simply won't make sense.

I'm not saying that quite right, but you probably know what I mean.

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.16 - 19 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 168 to 168

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

Mostly, they will have to argue that they know what's best for your kids.

They have no problem saying this directly, openly, explicitly.

They've said it many times.

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.15 - 19 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 161 to 161

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

We get HUGE amounts of thanks for our input!

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.14 - 19 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 150 to 150

-- DougSundseth - 17 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

You should start with a separate meeting of parents to come up with your own consensus and agenda. You need to define the process. They may not do anything, but it's better than the "Thank you for your input approach".

definitely

-- CatherineJohnson - 19 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.13 - 17 Nov 2006 - DougSundseth)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 141 to 141

-- SteveH - 17 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

"They'll do the usual."

If you allow this you will have lost before the first word is spoken. There's a reason that the layout of the room and control of order of speaking is a big topic in lots of negotiations; if you concede it without a fight, you have conceded too much.

-- DougSundseth - 17 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.12 - 17 Nov 2006 - SteveH)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 126 to 126

-- CatherineJohnson - 17 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

You should start with a separate meeting of parents to come up with your own consensus and agenda. You need to define the process. They may not do anything, but it's better than the "Thank you for your input approach".

What, specifically, do you want the school to do? As in any situation, criticism without a plan is not going to work. If enough people get together, perhaps you can strongly recommend a separate curriculum track. (not a separate ability track) In a case like this, you do not have to prove that one curriculum is better than another. You just have to prove a very strong demand. If there is enough demand, then any difficulties of resources will be minimized.

You will stand a much better chance if the argument is about resources and cost, rather than which curriculum is better. If the parent group is willing to help out - say, providing a Singapore Math support group after school - then you are being much more constructive. If the parents are serious enough, they might even provide a fund to help pay for extra training and conversion costs. As an interesting side note, many of the private school parents in our town would be willing to pay extra (above property taxes) to be able to get a better (or separate) curriculum in our public schools.

If there is enough demand, and you can eliminate cost and support issues, then the schools will be reduced to arguing that all kids have to do what they want; that their math curriculum is better than a curriculum like Singapore Math. Mostly, they will have to argue that they know what's best for your kids.

-- SteveH - 17 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.11 - 17 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 107 to 107

-- CatherineJohnson - 17 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

When people get to talking there are many possibilities.

Well, that's my feeling.

The district has maintained power by restricting information and communication.

Restrictions on communication are now faltering, thanks to the listserv. I expect that process to grow.

Restrictions on information are already faltering, again thanks to the listserv.

Just in the 6 weeks the listserv has been in existence I've learned far more about the district than I knew going in.

I wouldn't be at all surprised to find that the ability of a listserv to "aggregate information" is its most powerful feature.

-- CatherineJohnson - 17 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.10 - 17 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 100 to 100

-- CatherineJohnson - 17 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

So far that doesn't seem to have made much of an impression.

-- CatherineJohnson - 17 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.9 - 17 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 93 to 93

-- CatherineJohnson - 17 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

I've been telling them they need to take a "listening tour" of Irvington.

-- CatherineJohnson - 17 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.8 - 17 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 72 to 72

-- CatherineJohnson - 17 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

The format should be customer versus supplier. Consensus is not the goal. If there is any consensus necessary, it's among the parents, not between the parents and the schools.

Good advice.

Who knows if a meeting will happen?

I tend to think it will.....if only because I'll be relentless in publicizing the fact that it hasn't.....

They won't have a facilitator.

They'll do the usual.

The Board and the administration will sit behind The Big Table Up Front, they'll do the talking, we'll sit in the audience, raise our hands, and ask polite questions.

Then they'll send out an email thanking us for our "input."

-- CatherineJohnson - 17 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.7 - 17 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 63 to 63

-- DeeHodson? - 17 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

Hi Dee!

Thanks!

-- CatherineJohnson - 17 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.6 - 17 Nov 2006 - DeeHodson?)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 56 to 56

-- SteveH - 17 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

WooHoo! Way to go Catherine! It looks like this might let the cat out of the bag. So many parents are in the dark.....

-- DeeHodson? - 17 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.5 - 17 Nov 2006 - SteveH)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 42 to 42

-- TexasDesert - 17 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

"I'd particularly watch out for an attempt to appoint a biased moderator who is really a controller."

Delphi.

They call them facilitators. They use divide and conquer techniques. Their goal is consensus or balance, and we know what that means. Talk in generalities, but they get to decide the details.

The format should be customer versus supplier. Consensus is not the goal. If there is any consensus necessary, it's among the parents, not between the parents and the schools.

-- SteveH - 17 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.4 - 17 Nov 2006 - TexasDesert)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 37 to 37

Very cool, Catherine!
Changed:
<
<
When people get to talking there are many possibilities. Many times it just takes the first fearless person to break the ice and then watch out!
>
>
When people get to talking there are many possibilities. Many times it just takes the first fearless person to break the ice and then WATCH OUT!

-- TexasDesert - 17 Nov 2006


 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.3 - 17 Nov 2006 - TexasDesert)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 32 to 32

-- DougSundseth - 17 Nov 2006
Added:
>
>

Very cool, Catherine!

When people get to talking there are many possibilities. Many times it just takes the first fearless person to break the ice and then watch out!

-- TexasDesert - 17 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.2 - 17 Nov 2006 - DougSundseth)

META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12
Line: 22 to 22

Look here for syntax help.

Added:
>
>

In the event that you do get a meeting, I'd recommend that you do everything you can to control the agenda very tightly. I'd be willing to bet that the administration will be trying to do the same thing.

I'd particularly watch out for an attempt to appoint a biased moderator who is really a controller.

-- DougSundseth - 17 Nov 2006


META FORM WebLogForm  

 <<O>>  Difference Topic ParentUprising (r1.1 - 17 Nov 2006 - CatherineJohnson)
Line: 1 to 1
Added:
>
>
META TOPICPARENT WebLog
17 Nov 2006 - 01:12

parent uprising



Request meeting


Pretty cool, huh!

I had nothing to do with this!

I volunteered not to be the first signature, but the person who put it up told me to sign so I did.

The thinking was that people were going to be reluctant to sign due to fear of reprisals.

Seeing as how I've demonstrated a complete and total indifference to reprisals, I'm a sure thing when it comes to signatures.

Of course, I'm thinking that with 14 signatures in a couple of hours, the whole fear of reprisals thing may be fading.



And here is Team Irvington, a "pro-Fields" website that went up just yesterday.

And this morning the school board sent out a 30-item long "FAQ" about the fields!

I think all of this is great.

People are talking.

To each other!

I suppose there will be a zillion unintended consequences, and my own family will end up getting nothing whatsoever that we were hoping for... I don't care.

"It's all good."




-- CatherineJohnson - 17 Nov 2006

<!--

-->

Back to main page.



Comments

After entering a comment, users can login anonymously as KtmGuest (password: guest) when prompted.
Please consider registering as a regular user.
Look here for syntax help.

META FORM WebLogForm  
META FIELD Title Title parent uprising
META FIELD TopicType TopicType WebLog
META FIELD SubjectArea SubjectArea IrvingtonMath
META FIELD LogDate LogDate 200611162011

Topic: ParentUprising . { View | Diffs | r1.23 | > | r1.22 | > | r1.21 | More }

Revision r1.1 - 17 Nov 2006 - 01:12 - CatherineJohnson
Revision r1.23 - 19 Nov 2006 - 23:14 - CatherineJohnson