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25 Mar 2006 - 14:25

more on boys and school


This is fascinating:

Boys are, on average, as smart as girls, but they are much less fond of school. They consistently receive lower grades, have more discipline problems and are more likely to be held back for a year or placed in special education classes. The Harvard economist Brian Jacob attributes these problems to boys' lack of "noncognitive skills," like their difficulties with paying attention in class, their disorganization and their reluctance to seek help from others.

source:
On Campus, A Good Man Is Hard to Find
by John Tierney
Published: March 25, 2006




I'm blown away by this.

It's the boy version of grown men refusing to ask for directions!


We struggle with this issue constantly. At Christopher's school, children who are having trouble understanding the lessons are supposed to ask for help. It's up to them. A student has to have an IEP for an adult to step in and assume responsibility for knowing that a child needs help and then providing that help.**

OK, that has to be an exaggeration. I'm sure there's some point at which teachers start telling kids to come in for extra help.....although as I've mentioned any number of times, Christopher failed two unit tests in fourth grade math and the school didn't say boo. That was the 4-5 school, not the middle school, but so far this year the only teacher who's told Christopher to come for help is his new English teacher, who said he needed extra help on his handwriting. (YES! HE NEEDS HUGE HELP WITH HIS HANDWRITING! GOOD FOR HER!)***

Which brings me to my first example.

Christopher's handwriting is so terrible that it's a handicap in math homework and on math tests.

The reason his handwriting is terrible is that elementary schools stopped teaching legible handwriting at least 50 years ago, and I was unsuccessful in my own remediation efforts here at home. (I've been taking an informal poll of the 'Greatest Generation.' I have yet to meet even one person in his or her 70s or 80s with bad handwriting.)

Awhile back I asked his math teacher to give him extra paper to use on tests, and she agreed.

But she seems to have given him extra paper for only one test. Recently he came home with a test on which he'd clearly lost points because his handwriting is too large to do legible calculations in the margins of an exam paper.

I sent an email asking why she hadn't given him extra paper.

Her answer: "I forgot."

This wasn't an apology. Her next line was, "He didn't ask for paper."

And that was that.

It's up to Christopher to ask for extra paper in front of the all the other kids, many of whom are now entertaining themselves by calling him 'stupid.'

I don't care about the namecalling. They're all calling each other names all the time & I assume Christopher is as bad as the rest.

What I do care about is the fact that his teacher can't be bothered to remember simply to give all the kids extra paper before they begin the test whether they ask for it or not. Put out a stack of extra paper, or tell them to take paper out of their notebooks. (Her original reason for not doing so: 'they won't have extra paper to use on the state test.')*

I think I'm on safe ground when I say that boys have far worse handwriting than girls. Practically every boy I know was identified at an early age as having handwriting problems, and some, including Christopher for a spell, had problems so severe they were given occupational therapy.

How much does poor handwriting cost you on a math test?

Eugene Schwartz says 20%.



Who had trouble doing the problems?

A couple of weeks ago, in the run-up to the state tests, Ms. K. assigned 5 algebra problems for homework, giving them no instruction on how to do them.

I helped Christopher & his friend M., and found that — no surprise — the only way either of them knew how to tackle the problems was Guess and Check.

I figured Ms. K. would show them how to solve the problems the next day.

But she didn't.

Instead she asked the class if they'd had any trouble finding the answers!

Christopher's class is heavily oversubscribed by boys, and guess what?

Nobody thought he'd had any trouble doing any of the problems except for the super-hard problem about the two runners. It sounds like none of the kids had managed to do that one, so there was no shame in fessing up.

Somebody asked for help.

I'd love to know whether that somebody was a girl.



the runner problem

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Long Ranger on handwriting



* Apparently they're not supposed to study for the state test, but they are supposed to practice their handwriting for the state test.

** update: well, maybe not. Just talked to a friend of mine who says she's going to have to send her child, who does have an IEP, to private school. She's also had to hire a tutor for her other child, who is on a 504. Without a tutor he'll flunk 6th grade. That's the choice she faces. My question: with a per-pupil spending rate of $18,000, why isn't it the school's responsibility to provide tutors? Why isn't it the school's responsibility to identify children who are having trouble and remediate at once? And how is it that the KIPP Academy can teach all of its students at a per-pupil spending level of roughly $10,000? KIPP & Irvington by Doug Sundseth

*** This is an excellent example of a teacher going above and beyond the call of duty, and I'm grateful. BUT why should a 6th grade ELA teacher be in the position of having to remediate students' handwriting? She shouldn't! At this stage of the game she has better things to do with her time, and so do students. Handwriting should be taught to mastery in K-5. Period.


John Tierney on boys and college admissions
Kenyon College director on male & female college applicants
Verghis on asking for directions



-- CatherineJohnson - 25 Mar 2006

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Yet another shining example how so-called progressive ideas (usually implemented before they are tested and proven) get thwarted by the collected wisdom of the unprogressive ideas of previous generations.

Good handwriting skills are important for good handwriting (an ability which is arguably not quite as important as it once was), but also for succss at other (more advanced?) abilities that rely on good handwriting -- like math.

-- KDeRosa - 25 Mar 2006


Handwriting is UNBELIEVABLY important to math.

Christopher's BRILLIANT 5TH GRADE TEACHER, MS DUQUE, had a fabulous rant about MAYBE THEY COULD DO LONG DIVISION NOW IF YOU'D TAUGHT THEM HOW TO PRINT LEGIBLY AND LINE UP COLUMNS OF NUMBERS IN SECOND GRADE.

bingo

-- CatherineJohnson - 25 Mar 2006


We're going to bug the principal about the not-asking-for-help business.

His policy is that teachers are supposed to be contacting parents....though I don't know at what point they're supposed to do this. (He was unhappy with Ms. K for not contacting us when Christopher's test grades had slipped to a 'D.')

This will give him ammunition.

-- CatherineJohnson - 25 Mar 2006


I hope.

-- CatherineJohnson - 25 Mar 2006


Handwriting is UNBELIEVABLY important to math.

I'd go so far to say that that good handwriting is juat like the ability to read fluently. It's all about automaticity and freeing the brain up to attend to other things. So not having fluid handwriting is a handicap for any skill that involves writing because the mind is busy attending to the mechanics of writing instead of the business at hand.

-- KDeRosa - 25 Mar 2006


I'd go so far to say that that good handwriting is juat like the ability to read fluently. It's all about automaticity and freeing the brain up to attend to other things.

I agree.

There's quite a bit of research showing that kids with good handwriting also write better essays.

But with math you have the additional issue of poor handwriting causing errors.

-- CatherineJohnson - 25 Mar 2006


Another interesting thing: a couple of O.T.s have told us that for a lot of kids, including Christopher, cursive writing is easier than printing.

You can't use cursive writing when you're doing math.

A whole other problem.

-- CatherineJohnson - 25 Mar 2006


I think a lot of Long Island schools have stopped teaching cursive altogether (it was either cursive or printing, but I think cursive).

-- CatherineJohnson - 25 Mar 2006


Just an another example of the assault on the teaching of basic skills.

In my son's kindergarten class they jumped right to writing (Kids' Writing) completely bypassing all the important basic pre-skills -- decoding, reading, spelling, and handwriting. All those skills will be learned by osmosis when kids are immersed in writing, or so the (unproven) theory goes.

-- KDeRosa - 25 Mar 2006


they jumped right to writing (Kids' Writing) completely bypassing all the important basic pre-skills

writing?

they're supposed to be writing things down on paper?

words?

-- CatherineJohnson - 25 Mar 2006


My sister in law is a 1st grade teacher in IL. She said the 'standards' there have become insane.

I think they're supposed to have first graders writing....she may actually have said 3-paragraph essays; I'm not sure.

She said, 'Some of these people writing standards have no idea what children are like.'

-- CatherineJohnson - 25 Mar 2006


Is handwriting a gender issue? I don't know. Both of my girls have struggled with handwriting, but for different reasons.

I can't tell you how many times I have given the sermon, "If you don't write neatly and legibly, you may get the wrong answer, not because you don't know how to to the problem, but because you didn't line up the numbers."

Kristy, now an 11th grader, struggled with handwriting early on because she didn't have great fine motor skills. Her teachers were emphasizing its importance and ultimately, that was the hammer that caused her to really work at getting better.

Megan, the 7th grader, has excellent fine motor skills and for the most part, her handwriting was very legible. For her, it wasn't so much of a handwriting/fine motor issue as it was that the math curriculum wasn't providing the opportunities to learn and practice this skill. When she started KUMON, she learned (FINALLY) how important this was.

One of the features I liked about KUMON was that if you missed more than 3 problems on a worksheet, you had to correct the problems. This offers a major incentive to take the time to do it right the first time!!

I definitely think KUMON forced Megan to write numbers legibly--it developed it as a habit.

-- KarenA - 26 Mar 2006


reluctance to seek help from others

You mean this is a BOY thing?

I thought it was a BEN thing!

He'll snarl at me if I try to help him. Not only that, he'll snarl at teachers and teacher's aides if they try to help him.

-- CarolynJohnston - 26 Mar 2006


"because you didn't line up the numbers."

I'm still stuck on this. You guys don't give kids graph paper?

One symbol per square.

My handwriting is pretty bad, but I don't recall it giving me any problems in maths.

-- TracyW - 26 Mar 2006


Er, could I possibly say the we don't like askin' for directions? WE DON'T NEED NO STINKIN' DIRECTIONS! WE LIKE EXPLORING LOST CONTINENTS - OR AT LEAST LOST STREETS!

And our handwriting stinks because our powerful brains are too fast for our fine motor skills. Like the Mekon of Mekonta!

-- VerghisKoshi - 26 Mar 2006


Karen A

I don't know whether handwriting is a gender issue, but I think it is — entirely based on how often I've heard the 'boys have poor fine motor skills' refrain....

My own handwriting is terrible, and it really bothers me.

I tried to remediate my handwriting along with Christopher's and did make some progress, but then got off track when the 5th grade school year began.

Supposedly people all over America, when you ask them about their handwriting, feel horrible about it!

I know I do. I HATE my handwriting. I once had a scientist ask me if I had a handwriting disability — !

-- CatherineJohnson - 26 Mar 2006


One of the features I liked about KUMON was that if you missed more than 3 problems on a worksheet, you had to correct the problems. This offers a major incentive to take the time to do it right the first time!!

At my KUMON center you correct EVERYTHING!

-- CatherineJohnson - 26 Mar 2006


Tracy

We do not give graph paper to children in math.

That would make too much sense.

-- CatherineJohnson - 26 Mar 2006


Last year, when Christopher was in 5th grade, I actually made up my own graph paper template (I think the squares were a bit larger than commercial graph paper).

I gave copies of it to a couple of the math teachers, and they both contacted me asking permission to copy it and hand it out in class!

We have a HUGE educational industry, selling a gazillion products to schools, and a teacher can't buy slightly-oversized graph paper.

The grade school teachers all had a good work-around, which was that they had the kids turn their lined paper sideways, and write columns of numbers in between the now-vertical lines.

Come to think of it, I should make up my own vertically-lined template...

-- CatherineJohnson - 26 Mar 2006


Carolyn

You mean this is a BOY thing?

I thought it was a BEN thing!

He'll snarl at me if I try to help him. Not only that, he'll snarl at teachers and teacher's aides if they try to help him.

I'm blown away by the whole thing.

We have PITCHED battles about this, PITCHED.

I was thinking it was just Christopher. He goes NUTS if you so much as SUGGEST that PERHAPS he DOESN'T KNOW EVERYTHING ON EARTH ABOUT, say, MOTION & FORCE.

(that's another subject: you would not BELIEVE his 'science' text)

-- CatherineJohnson - 26 Mar 2006


I was thinking Christopher was just a nut....so now of course I'm wondering whether this really is a boy thing.

I wouldn't be surprised.

-- CatherineJohnson - 26 Mar 2006